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By Maureen Forry
The year: 1988. The place: Richmond Street, Lower Mills.
Three or four adolescent girls (these days, we'd have been
called "tweens") discovered a phenomenon that would more or
less define the next few years of our lives: a boy band
known as the New Kids on the Block.
Many generations ahead of us had experienced a similar
obsession: Dion and the Belmonts, Elvis, the Beatles (ha! We
turned up our noses at those unadulterated oldies). What
made this new group of young men special - at least for
those girls on Richmond Street - was the fact that they
"live, like, right over there!!"
Our seventh-grade hearts simply burst with pride and
adoration as we watched these five young Dorchester guys
(well, technically four, since we all know Joey McIntyre was
a J.P. boy) climb their way to the top of the nation's pop
charts and consciousness. Our parents popped antacids,
bought stock in earplugs in futile attempts to block the
sound of synthesizers and falsetto voices blaring from our
boom-boxes. They refrained from having us
institutionalized when we proclaimed our willingness to take
a bullet for any one of the boys - should such a situation
present itself. But that was the extent of our love - and at
the age of 10, 11, 12, such fierce devotion is difficult to
come by.
As any woman my age can attest to, woe unto she who was
unlucky enough to have an older brother, for her days would
be spent staunchly defending the "fort" &endash; a term I
use to define the pink-frilly bedrooms that were overtaken
by pictures ripped from Tiger Beat Magazine and life-sized
posters procured from Sam Goody. All the boys in our lives -
schoolmates, neighbors, brothers - clearly, they were simply
jealous. Our hearts belonged to five men and five men only.
There simply wasn't room for any others.
I was lucky enough to have a brother with a license to
drive. Of course, this meant that not only was he forced to
chauffeur me to Foxboro Stadium for a concert or two, but he
could also ferry my friends and me to the homes of New Kids.
My favorite haunt was the Knight family estate on Melville
Avenue .We would hang out there for hours, with 50 of our
closest friends, trading gossip and waiting to catch a
glimpse of Jordan or Jonathan, perhaps even Jonathan's pet
Sharpei, Nikko. It wasn't unusual for an alleged NKOTB
- spotting to occur, and God help us if we didn't punctuate
the sight with ear-piecing screams designed to remind the
group of the place they held in our collective esteem.
Looking back, I shudder to think of us loitering about
the neighborhood like urchins, disrupting the lives of the
good people of Codman Square and Melville Park. One such
episode also led to the Great Three Month Grounding of 1990.
Mom couldn't find us at our designated pick-up spot due to
the fact that we'd discovered another exit for the Knight
brothers, hoping to elude us, on an adjacent street.
Trespassing aside, what really stands out as I reflect
back on those days is the sheer pride I felt in sharing a
home town with four-fifths of the group. NKOTB really did
put Dorchester on the map, even though I do recall one
nationally syndicated show referring to Dot as "a suburb of
South Boston."
They did the talk show rounds and the media clamored to
make sense of a group of white boys who sounded like a black
singing group. I remember the backlash of the group's
members, who stood firm on the belief that race was not
something one could hear. They were asked about the racial
history of our city - busing, segregation, growing up in
schools where they were a minority; their success brought to
the forefront some hot-button topics that had previously
been forbidden territory.
So now, we seem to have come full circle. NKOTB is
reuniting. I would be lying if I said I'm not excited.
Just the other night, I got together with some high school
friends and the idea of attending a reunion tour was bandied
about. After about five minutes of trading New Kids stories,
I realized that the only real difference between our
adolescent selves and the women we are today was that we
were sipping $25 wine rather than 25 cent Teenies bought at
the corner variety. United by nostalgia and a memory of
simpler times, we once again allow ourselves to remember a
shared passion, silly as it may seem today.
I'm thinking I might just ask my brother to drive me to
the concert, just for old times' sake.
Editor's note: Maureen Forry works in the Reporter's
sales and marketing office - and is old enough to drive
herself.
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