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Letter to the
Editor
Promising Young
Nigerian Man's Death
a Tragedy for All
To the Editor:
A child is the symbol not only of
their parents' love, but a symbol of their parents' hopes,
expectations, and dreams. As a Nigerian child, I grew up
with the notion that children are born to surpass their
parents in knowledge, strength, character, and talent. This
is a doctrine cherished in all Nigerian families and other
immigrant families, who make the journey to the Western
world in search of their "piece of the pie."
Many of us in the United States
have discovered that the pie is not so easy to cut. Death is
always a looming possibility, which we constantly try to
avoid. However, strange as it is, death catches up to us.
Some deaths are expected, others
surprising. Some are peaceful, others wrought with pain. The
worst death is that of a child, the end of a parent's hopes
and dreams.
The death of 20 year-old Franklyn
Nwachukwu is so far the worst death in Boston this summer
and the worst death experienced by Massachusetts' Nigerian
community. His death did come as a surprise, it was terribly
painful, and it was the death of a very promising
child.
Franklyn was shot on the evening
of July 15, 2005 in the usually quiet neighborhood of Hyde
Park. After being rushed to Brigham and Women's hospital, he
passed away that very same night. The police called his
attack an attempted robbery by a group of three young men,
who fled the scene on foot immediately after the shooting.
The investigation is still ongoing.
In their "attempted robbery," the
assailants have stolen a son, brother, friend, and student
from the Nwachukwu family and the greater Boston community.
This precious young man was a third year Nursing Student at
UMASS Amherst, who had been working extremely hard to pay
his way through school. He was not a bad kid, from a bad
neighborhood engaging in unacceptable behavior. Such
misleading stereotypes force us to often desensitize
ourselves to the victims of heinous crimes, allowing us to
believe that they deserved to die.
Numerous initiatives have been
blooming all over the city to curtail violence carried out
mainly by teenagers and young adults during the summer
months. Franklyn's death is an eye- opener for many people
who felt they could avoid bullets by always being in the
right place at the right time. We are all learning that life
can never be so predictable.
Our faith urges us to believe that
things happen for a reason greater than life on earth, but
we must always ask, "Why?" Even if Franklyn and other young
adults across the country are chosen to make their journey
out of this world, why is it that a fellow peer must make
them suffer in the most unimaginable way before their
departure?
Questions linger and still there
are limited answers. But to immerse yourself in questioning
is to allow yourself to only remember Franklyn for the way
he died. The most important thing to remember is the way he
lived. Even for those who are hearing his name for the first
time, the image of this child of immigrants full of hopes
and dreams, who devoted himself to giving his family the
opportunity to enjoy their piece of the pie, is enough for
you to hold on to.
Franklyn is survived by his
parents, Mr. and Mrs. Obiora Nwachukwu and his younger
sisters, Adora and Obiamaka.
- Chiazor A. N.
Okagbue
The Franklyn Nwachukwu Memorial
Fund is currently accepting donations to aid the Nwachukwu
family as it prepares to escort Franklin's body to Nigeria
for a proper burial. Please make checks payable to: The
Franklyn Nwachukwu Memorial Fund. Donations and
correspondence should be sent to the following address:
Franklin Nwachukwu Memorial Fund, 253 Margaretta Drive, Hyde
Park, MA 02136. For further information please contact N.T.
Izuchi at 617-512-8180.
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