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Declaration of
dependence
By James W.
Dolan
In the course of human events
there comes a time when we must declare our dependence on
those persons and things that provide hope, health,
sustenance and security in a world fraught with danger and
confusion.
I was dependent upon my parents
for my life and a nurturing environment and upon my teachers
for their guidance and patience.
I am dependent on my wife for the
care and comfort she provides and upon my children and
grandchildren for the joy they bring into my
life.
I am dependent on my friends and
family for the pleasure of their companionship and my
colleagues for the help and support they provide.
I am dependent on government for
order, protection and services that would otherwise be
unavailable.
I am dependent on those that
provide food, goods and services that I am unable to produce
myself and which make life more comfortable.
I am dependent on strangers who
bring vitality to life and who fill spaces that otherwise
would be cold and deserted.
I am dependent upon nature in all
its glorious manifestations for the awe, peace and joy I
under its spell.
I am dependent upon every other
human being who shares with me the experience of being
alive.
I am dependent upon myself but
much less so than I would like to believe.
I am dependent upon faith to
provide meaning and purpose to life.
I am dependent on the illusion of
my independence which permits me to at least feel that I am
not fragile and helpless.
I am dependent on all those
instrument of pleasure and convenience that have lightened
life's burdens.
All that I am dependent upon is
itself dependent.
I am dependent on something beyond
me that is truly apart and independent.
I am dependent upon God and it is
only by acknowledging that dependence that I can find some
modicum of independence.
James W. Dolan is a retired
Dorchester District Court judge who now practices
law.
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