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By David Benoit
Special to the Reporter
A group of women rowing up and down the Charles
River this summer probably don't fit the typical
profile for crew team members. This team is not
funded by a waterfront university, and they store
their boat in a melted-out DCR ice rink. And like
Dorchester natives Felicia Eliot and Rina Ambrose,
each is a teenager, and each one of them is a
mother.
They are part of a program funded by Children's
Hospital that provides young mothers a chance to
get out of their houses and meet people in similar
situations with similar backgrounds. The Proud
Mama's Rowing Team, which practices twice a week,
is currently preparing for a regatta on Saturday
against three other crew teams with similar
missions. Eliot and Ambrose were two of the seven
rowers at Tuesday's penultimate team practice, each
of which has been an opportunity to building
relationships through a collective experience.
The team is organized by Children's Young
Parent's Program, which gives medical care,
training and therapy to mothers in need. "I got
involved through our clinic, and I thought it would
be fun an interesting," Ambrose explained. "I
usually don't get to do things without my son, and
they provide childcare, so that's why I was able to
do it."
The women are picked up twice a week and brought
out to the MDC Community Boating House on Nonantum
Road on the Allston Brighton line. They are given
money to cover the cost of childcare for the few
hours they are gone, in hopes that all their
worries can be put behind them while they row.
"We were finding a lot of depression among our
patients. They don't go to therapy a lot, and we
were looking for an alternative means for combating
depression and preventing depression," said
Jennifer Valenzuela, a social worker at Children's
and a founder of the program. "This is a great
opportunity for these girls. It lets them meet
other mothers in the same situation, and of course
the exercise. Exercise is a great
anti-depressive."
The program starts with a series of volunteer
gym practices and indoor training sessions during
the winter. When spring rolls around, organizers
ask for some dedication and commitment, but it's
always a challenge to keep attendance consistent,
especially because of childcare.
"Probably our biggest challenge is childcare,"
said Ambrose. "At first I had a lot of trouble with
childcare so I wasn't able to go all the time but
now I do it twice a week."
Ambrose is a 19-year-old and has a 14 month-old
son named Kyre. She is a student at Simmons
College, where she is studying to be a nurse, and
wants to eventually work with disabled children.
She joined the crew team because she needed some
sort of activity for herself, despite her fear of
water.
"I like trying new things for the most part, and
I wanted a way to continue to be involved and I
need extracurriculars for my major, and this was
the only one that fit my schedule so I had to suck
it up and get out there," she laughed. But she
quickly added that "sometimes, when the boat gets
rocky I get a little nervous."
For Eliot, her ventures onto the boat are about
having fun and experiencing something out of the
ordinary. The mother of a two-year-old girl,
Lanasya, at 17 years of age, the Florida Street
resident could use some time to be with people her
own age.
"I didn't really know what it was but now that I
know I like it, it's been fun," said the
soft-spoken, shy young lady. "I would tell anybody
that wants to know how fun it is and that they
should try it."
On Tuesday the women got to the water a little
after 4 p.m. and after bringing all the oars to the
shore, stood in a circle and stretched. Each one
listed a goal they had for that practice and a team
goal for Saturday's big race. Their coach, Liza
Hirsch, who rowed while attending University of
Wisconsin Madison, pressed them all to stick
together and row well in one of their final
tune-ups.
After a brief delay when a team member showed up
a little bit late, the Proud Mama's had their skull
going at eight strong, putting all their energy
into their strokes. It was one of their first
practices with a full boat and going full power.
Their only delay on the water was caused by an
apparent bee attack in the stern of the boat.
This Saturday, however, they say it will take a
lot more than bees to stop them. They are looking
to make good on their proud name.
"We are going to win," said Ambrose.
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